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		<title>Comment on The dangers of flirting by Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 11:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fleur - yes it is possible, and rather magical when you don&#039;t need to play games and can just be honest, open and clear about your intentions. But as all the great masters of any art would tell you: You must master the game and know all the rules before you can break them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fleur &#8211; yes it is possible, and rather magical when you don&#8217;t need to play games and can just be honest, open and clear about your intentions. But as all the great masters of any art would tell you: You must master the game and know all the rules before you can break them.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The dangers of flirting by Fleur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fleur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 07:42:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Harry, what about people who are sick of playing games? (see flow chart) what do they do? Thoughts? Or is there no such thing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Harry, what about people who are sick of playing games? (see flow chart) what do they do? Thoughts? Or is there no such thing?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The dangers of flirting by Meiliken</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meiliken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 14:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All of that text can be boiled down to one word to explain women.  Shallow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of that text can be boiled down to one word to explain women.  Shallow.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is NLP pseudoscientific baloney or an effective tool for personal development? by Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 13:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I challenge that belief, even in myself - the idea that &#039;I&#039;m too smart for this to work on me&#039;, but what I think I&#039;m encountering is two-fold: One, we are entrenched in a pattern, and finding excuses to remain stuck there; and two, it makes us feel clever to think &quot;I recognise what you&#039;re doing, therefore it doesn&#039;t work&quot;

The only objection to it is this: NLP is the art of finding out what works, so obvious (and often clumsy) swish patterns and fiddling with submodalities and all that frankly &#039;magical&#039; part might not work unless they slip under the radar. So change up your strategy, try blunt honesty or humour, weave in some nuanced hypnotic language, whatever you do, continually change your approach and you&#039;ll likely reach a valid conclusion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I challenge that belief, even in myself &#8211; the idea that &#8216;I&#8217;m too smart for this to work on me&#8217;, but what I think I&#8217;m encountering is two-fold: One, we are entrenched in a pattern, and finding excuses to remain stuck there; and two, it makes us feel clever to think &#8220;I recognise what you&#8217;re doing, therefore it doesn&#8217;t work&#8221;</p>
<p>The only objection to it is this: NLP is the art of finding out what works, so obvious (and often clumsy) swish patterns and fiddling with submodalities and all that frankly &#8216;magical&#8217; part might not work unless they slip under the radar. So change up your strategy, try blunt honesty or humour, weave in some nuanced hypnotic language, whatever you do, continually change your approach and you&#8217;ll likely reach a valid conclusion.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is NLP pseudoscientific baloney or an effective tool for personal development? by Bob Mushroom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Mushroom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2011 09:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got the answer.

NLP is a self-pfulfilling proficiency. 

Its bullshit but often times if you believe something will work, then it will. So it becomes not bullshit.

The problem with me is that I feel like I&#039;m TOO SMART for this stuff. I wish I could be stupid and gullible because then it may very well be able to help me with things. But I know its bullshit so it doesn&#039;t work on me.

So on some people it works and on others it doesn&#039;t. Thats what makes it hard to study and causes debate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got the answer.</p>
<p>NLP is a self-pfulfilling proficiency. </p>
<p>Its bullshit but often times if you believe something will work, then it will. So it becomes not bullshit.</p>
<p>The problem with me is that I feel like I&#8217;m TOO SMART for this stuff. I wish I could be stupid and gullible because then it may very well be able to help me with things. But I know its bullshit so it doesn&#8217;t work on me.</p>
<p>So on some people it works and on others it doesn&#8217;t. Thats what makes it hard to study and causes debate.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About Me by Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 13:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sure, write something funny and/or interesting and I&#039;ll post it here with a link to your blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure, write something funny and/or interesting and I&#8217;ll post it here with a link to your blog.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About Me by Kathleen Hubert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hubert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 12:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello,

I was wondering if you accept guest post for your blog. If you do, I would like to submit a few. I&#039;m a recent college graduate, with an English major, looking to build out my portfolio. I can write on a wide variety of topics and am sure you would be happy with the quality. Please email me back if you are interested. Thank you for your time.

- Kathleen Hubert
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002374243662</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello,</p>
<p>I was wondering if you accept guest post for your blog. If you do, I would like to submit a few. I&#8217;m a recent college graduate, with an English major, looking to build out my portfolio. I can write on a wide variety of topics and am sure you would be happy with the quality. Please email me back if you are interested. Thank you for your time.</p>
<p>- Kathleen Hubert<br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002374243662" rel="nofollow">http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002374243662</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on A rant about relative morality and Osama Bin Laden&#8217;s death by Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 13:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh as in there is nothing inherently immoral in expressing your opinion. Okay, it is clear now - I was being stupid.

But I still disagree. Well, I do and I don&#039;t. After you&#039;ve answered what makes you sure OBL did 9/11, I&#039;ll ask you what you think about holocaust deniers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh as in there is nothing inherently immoral in expressing your opinion. Okay, it is clear now &#8211; I was being stupid.</p>
<p>But I still disagree. Well, I do and I don&#8217;t. After you&#8217;ve answered what makes you sure OBL did 9/11, I&#8217;ll ask you what you think about holocaust deniers.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A rant about relative morality and Osama Bin Laden&#8217;s death by Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 13:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The latter stuff I&#039;ll get to tomorrow, but let me break down those two sentences for you.

Even more befuddling is this: “I didn’t say that they did the right thing.” followed by this: “I don’t think there’s any problem in saying that yes, the US got this one right.”&quot;

Read it again.

I said that I don&#039;t think there&#039;s a problem in SAYING the US got it right. As in, articulating the rightness of the action is not, in an of itself, wrong, due to the moral ambiguity of the problem as I outlined above. I accept that there are a variety of positions, based on one&#039;s own moral judgement and the complexity of the situation, and one of them is that the US made the correct decision. Articulating that is not some sort of horrible thing. Which is the same thing I meant by the differentiation between the rightness of the action, and the rightness of calling the action right. Simply that there are a different set of questions and criteria are applied to whether the action was right, and whether calling the action right was right- the two things are no the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The latter stuff I&#8217;ll get to tomorrow, but let me break down those two sentences for you.</p>
<p>Even more befuddling is this: “I didn’t say that they did the right thing.” followed by this: “I don’t think there’s any problem in saying that yes, the US got this one right.”&#8221;</p>
<p>Read it again.</p>
<p>I said that I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s a problem in SAYING the US got it right. As in, articulating the rightness of the action is not, in an of itself, wrong, due to the moral ambiguity of the problem as I outlined above. I accept that there are a variety of positions, based on one&#8217;s own moral judgement and the complexity of the situation, and one of them is that the US made the correct decision. Articulating that is not some sort of horrible thing. Which is the same thing I meant by the differentiation between the rightness of the action, and the rightness of calling the action right. Simply that there are a different set of questions and criteria are applied to whether the action was right, and whether calling the action right was right- the two things are no the same.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A rant about relative morality and Osama Bin Laden&#8217;s death by Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 13:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t tell if I&#039;m stupid or you&#039;re being unclear, but I really struggle to ascertain the difference between this: &lt;em&gt;&quot;the rightness of the action&lt;/em&gt;&quot; and this &lt;em&gt;&quot;the rightness of calling the action right&quot;&lt;/em&gt;

Surely if you&#039;re saying it&#039;s right to say that something is right, you&#039;re also implicitly saying you agree with it.

Even more befuddling is this: &lt;em&gt;&quot;I didn’t say that they did the right thing.&quot;&lt;/em&gt; followed by this: &lt;em&gt;“I don’t think there’s any problem in saying that yes, the US got this one right.”&lt;/em&gt;

If there is, as you claim, a subtle distinction, point it out to me. Maybe use a metaphor? It sounds like: &quot;I&#039;m not saying [Osama/Obama/Bush/Gaddafi/Hitler] did the right thing, but if you said he did the right thing, I&#039;d say you said the right thing.&quot;

Truther claim: I didn&#039;t say he didn&#039;t do it, I expressed my doubts at the official story. If, as you assert: &lt;em&gt;&quot;the notion that a court would have ruled that Al Qaeda was not responsible for 9-11 is fantasy&quot; &lt;/em&gt; please explain how you come to this conclusion. Remember, in the case of murder, you require a &#039;beyond reasonable doubt&#039; verdict.

Osama has never confessed to committing the crime, and there is no physical evidence tying him to the hijackers nor the scene of the crime. There is no eyewitness testimony, nor any clear motive given beyond &#039;He hates our freedom&#039;. I have doubts that are entirely reasonable.

But simpler: What is YOUR evidence that he did do it? I would really like you to address that point.

Once you&#039;ve convinced me that he was responsible to the point of unbending certainty, I will happily grant you the fact that Pakistan&#039;s ISI are not the folk to want to be colluding with if you&#039;re planning on doing some sophisticated SWAT shit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t tell if I&#8217;m stupid or you&#8217;re being unclear, but I really struggle to ascertain the difference between this: <em>&#8220;the rightness of the action</em>&#8221; and this <em>&#8220;the rightness of calling the action right&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Surely if you&#8217;re saying it&#8217;s right to say that something is right, you&#8217;re also implicitly saying you agree with it.</p>
<p>Even more befuddling is this: <em>&#8220;I didn’t say that they did the right thing.&#8221;</em> followed by this: <em>“I don’t think there’s any problem in saying that yes, the US got this one right.”</em></p>
<p>If there is, as you claim, a subtle distinction, point it out to me. Maybe use a metaphor? It sounds like: &#8220;I&#8217;m not saying [Osama/Obama/Bush/Gaddafi/Hitler] did the right thing, but if you said he did the right thing, I&#8217;d say you said the right thing.&#8221;</p>
<p>Truther claim: I didn&#8217;t say he didn&#8217;t do it, I expressed my doubts at the official story. If, as you assert: <em>&#8220;the notion that a court would have ruled that Al Qaeda was not responsible for 9-11 is fantasy&#8221; </em> please explain how you come to this conclusion. Remember, in the case of murder, you require a &#8216;beyond reasonable doubt&#8217; verdict.</p>
<p>Osama has never confessed to committing the crime, and there is no physical evidence tying him to the hijackers nor the scene of the crime. There is no eyewitness testimony, nor any clear motive given beyond &#8216;He hates our freedom&#8217;. I have doubts that are entirely reasonable.</p>
<p>But simpler: What is YOUR evidence that he did do it? I would really like you to address that point.</p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve convinced me that he was responsible to the point of unbending certainty, I will happily grant you the fact that Pakistan&#8217;s ISI are not the folk to want to be colluding with if you&#8217;re planning on doing some sophisticated SWAT shit.</p>
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