Dear Harry,
If a girl has bought a new pair of pants that she is really excited about, but you think they don’t look as great as she does, do you tell her that?”
- Sensitive
Well Sensitive, you pose an interesting question: Should I lie to a girl that has asked for my opinon? No. Do I? Occasionally – when I’m being cowardly.
There was this psychotherapist dude called Frank Farrelly who invented a thing he called Provocative Therapy. It’s bloody genius. It uses brutal honesty, humor and positive intent to empower people, give them perspective, and allow them to change.
The idea that you’re protecting someone’s feelings by lying to them is bogus. Be honest. You lie to make your own life easier. If someone close to you asks you questions and expects lies as answers, then they are all stuffed in the head and it’s your job to break that pattern. It’s not doing them any good.
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Harry, March 22nd 2010 |
Tags: dating, honesty, NLP, persuasion, provocative therapy, sex, women
Posted in NLP, Raves
A UTV channel in India called Bindass recently released an advertising campaign which appears to indicate that being an atheist is on par with not being serious about one’s career, doing drugs and being a slut.
What does being Bindass mean to you?
http://www.bindass.com/post/utv-bindass-what-i-am/
Thanks to Manushka for the heads up on this issue:
Manushka: Intelligent eye-candy to stop traffic.
She’s a very dear friend who is serious about her career(s), very chaste and abhors drugs. She’s also an avowed atheist – she doesn’t even believe in a single god. She also shared with me a rather interesting article which showed research has linked IQ with Liberalism, Atheism and sexual exclusivity in men (not women). Nicely done!
The point of the campaign appears to be: “Just because I watch this channel doesn’t mean that I’m a reprobate.”
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Harry, February 25th 2010 |
Tags: Afghanistan, atheism, conspiracy, drugs, global warming, logic, politics, rationality, religion, sex
Posted in India, Rants
Through the pulsing haze of smoke, a stunning Thai girl was dancing seductively and whipping her hair at me.
“She’s gotta be a hooker” I told my mate Hale.
“Nah, she just thinks you’re hot.” he retorted.
“I know how hot I am mate, and I’ve never been that hot, particularly not in the eyes of someone like her”
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Harry, February 2nd 2010 |
Tags: alpha males, bangkok, dating, prostitution, sex, thailand, Travel, women
Posted in Rants, Travel
